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	<title>Comments on: A CONVERSATION WITH MY DEAD FATHER</title>
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		<title>By: John</title>
		<link>http://rightwingnuthouse.com/archives/2007/06/16/a-conversation-with-my-dead-father/comment-page-1/#comment-821534</link>
		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jul 2007 03:42:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My father passed away suddenly back in 1994. I was 18 and at work (waiting tables) on a sunday when it happened. I had been at odds with my dad for several weeks and had even been rude to him, refusing a hug the last time I saw him. I can't even been to describe the pain I felt when I got the call and came home to see him being carried out by emergency workers. The pain and guilt was nearly unbearable for me. I was 18 and had 2 younger brothers and a sister. I will always remember going into the viewing room a few hrs before other guests/family and seeing him. I pulled a chair up to his casket, put my hand on his and wept.I had never been around a dead person before and was afraid but my guilt ran over me like a truck. I placed my hand on his and apologized. It didn't make me feel better. That was 13 yrs ago. I think of him every day but function just fine, but every now and then the feeling hits me as if he died yesterday. My wife of three years is prego with our first child. If it's a boy I will name him after my father. There is much more I would like to say but I'm sure these posts have limits on space.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My father passed away suddenly back in 1994. I was 18 and at work (waiting tables) on a sunday when it happened. I had been at odds with my dad for several weeks and had even been rude to him, refusing a hug the last time I saw him. I can&#8217;t even been to describe the pain I felt when I got the call and came home to see him being carried out by emergency workers. The pain and guilt was nearly unbearable for me. I was 18 and had 2 younger brothers and a sister. I will always remember going into the viewing room a few hrs before other guests/family and seeing him. I pulled a chair up to his casket, put my hand on his and wept.I had never been around a dead person before and was afraid but my guilt ran over me like a truck. I placed my hand on his and apologized. It didn&#8217;t make me feel better. That was 13 yrs ago. I think of him every day but function just fine, but every now and then the feeling hits me as if he died yesterday. My wife of three years is prego with our first child. If it&#8217;s a boy I will name him after my father. There is much more I would like to say but I&#8217;m sure these posts have limits on space.</p>
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		<title>By: Watcher&#8217;s council for the week &#124; BitsBlog</title>
		<link>http://rightwingnuthouse.com/archives/2007/06/16/a-conversation-with-my-dead-father/comment-page-1/#comment-746282</link>
		<dc:creator>Watcher&#8217;s council for the week &#124; BitsBlog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jun 2007 19:39:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: The Glittering Eye &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Eye on the Watcher&#8217;s Council</title>
		<link>http://rightwingnuthouse.com/archives/2007/06/16/a-conversation-with-my-dead-father/comment-page-1/#comment-746029</link>
		<dc:creator>The Glittering Eye &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Eye on the Watcher&#8217;s Council</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jun 2007 15:24:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Watcher of Weasels</title>
		<link>http://rightwingnuthouse.com/archives/2007/06/16/a-conversation-with-my-dead-father/comment-page-1/#comment-745266</link>
		<dc:creator>Watcher of Weasels</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jun 2007 04:59:16 +0000</pubDate>
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First off...&#160; any spambots reading this should immediately go here, here, here,&#160; and here.&#160; Die spambots, die!&#160; And now...&#160; here are all the links submitted by members of the Watcher's Council for this week's vote. Council li...</description>
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<p>First off&#8230;&nbsp; any spambots reading this should immediately go here, here, here,&nbsp; and here.&nbsp; Die spambots, die!&nbsp; And now&#8230;&nbsp; here are all the links submitted by members of the Watcher&#8217;s Council for this week&#8217;s vote. Council li&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Sweetie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sweetie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jun 2007 19:32:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I lost my Dad 10 years ago.  Up until a year or so ago whenever something good happened in my life my very first thought was a reflex - 'call Dad'.  In a sense I lost him twice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I lost my Dad 10 years ago.  Up until a year or so ago whenever something good happened in my life my very first thought was a reflex - &#8216;call Dad&#8217;.  In a sense I lost him twice.</p>
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		<title>By: Psychobarb</title>
		<link>http://rightwingnuthouse.com/archives/2007/06/16/a-conversation-with-my-dead-father/comment-page-1/#comment-742696</link>
		<dc:creator>Psychobarb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jun 2007 17:44:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I, too, lost my Dad about six years ago and it still hurts.  Without my father I felt less safe, as if the family lion, the protector was gone.  Even though I had a husband and children of my own, he was my protector.

I was the son he never had, sort of, (he was blessed with three daughters, every man should be so lucky), we adored him, the way he looked, the way he moved and he knew it.

But I was like a son, I guess, because I pretended I wasn't afraid of him.  In fact a few months before he died, somewhat suddenly, we were talking and he asked, "Weren't you afraid of me when you were growing up?"  Chin jutting out, I said, "No,"  as not to give him the satisfaction.

Liar.  He could be scary.  Hear that Dad, I was scared of you.  Missing you, always.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I, too, lost my Dad about six years ago and it still hurts.  Without my father I felt less safe, as if the family lion, the protector was gone.  Even though I had a husband and children of my own, he was my protector.</p>
<p>I was the son he never had, sort of, (he was blessed with three daughters, every man should be so lucky), we adored him, the way he looked, the way he moved and he knew it.</p>
<p>But I was like a son, I guess, because I pretended I wasn&#8217;t afraid of him.  In fact a few months before he died, somewhat suddenly, we were talking and he asked, &#8220;Weren&#8217;t you afraid of me when you were growing up?&#8221;  Chin jutting out, I said, &#8220;No,&#8221;  as not to give him the satisfaction.</p>
<p>Liar.  He could be scary.  Hear that Dad, I was scared of you.  Missing you, always.</p>
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		<title>By: Doug Purdie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Doug Purdie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jun 2007 16:09:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mine passed only six years ago.  Like you though, I am still seeking his approval:  "Did you see what I just did?  Isn't it just the way you taught me?  Does it make you proud of me? I am teaching your grandchildren the exact same thing!"    And I don't even believe in heaven.  Isn't that crazy?

I dream of passed love ones as though they are still alive and that brings me mild suprise - "Grandma, I thought you died?", but I accept the absurd idea almost immediately. "Oh, OK. You're alive now"

Last year I dreampt such a dream about my father for the first time.  The only thing I remember about it now were how damn-awfull good his hugs felt.  Those hugs that I crave so much now are the same hugs that I used to try and escape as a child.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mine passed only six years ago.  Like you though, I am still seeking his approval:  &#8220;Did you see what I just did?  Isn&#8217;t it just the way you taught me?  Does it make you proud of me? I am teaching your grandchildren the exact same thing!&#8221;    And I don&#8217;t even believe in heaven.  Isn&#8217;t that crazy?</p>
<p>I dream of passed love ones as though they are still alive and that brings me mild suprise - &#8220;Grandma, I thought you died?&#8221;, but I accept the absurd idea almost immediately. &#8220;Oh, OK. You&#8217;re alive now&#8221;</p>
<p>Last year I dreampt such a dream about my father for the first time.  The only thing I remember about it now were how damn-awfull good his hugs felt.  Those hugs that I crave so much now are the same hugs that I used to try and escape as a child.</p>
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		<title>By: Rodney A Stanton</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rodney A Stanton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jun 2007 12:58:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very good! More so to me as I can relate to almost all the points made. A good father leaves a lasting impact on one's life! It is no wonder to me how so many "fatherless" kids grow up bad. 
Being a good father is hard. Having a good father is often not fun. But kids without fathers very often harm the community. It does not take a village it takes a father!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very good! More so to me as I can relate to almost all the points made. A good father leaves a lasting impact on one&#8217;s life! It is no wonder to me how so many &#8220;fatherless&#8221; kids grow up bad.<br />
Being a good father is hard. Having a good father is often not fun. But kids without fathers very often harm the community. It does not take a village it takes a father!</p>
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		<title>By: Pajamas Media</title>
		<link>http://rightwingnuthouse.com/archives/2007/06/16/a-conversation-with-my-dead-father/comment-page-1/#comment-741424</link>
		<dc:creator>Pajamas Media</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2007 21:45:16 +0000</pubDate>
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Father's Day is tough on those whose dads are no longer with them. Rick Moran decides to have a chat with his anyway. "Ultimately, it comes down to this; youâ€™ve never left me. If there is one thing I could......</description>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2007 16:18:30 +0000</pubDate>
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